Guess Who Didn't Make it Home Last Night?
Wednesday, July 27, 2005*Raises hand*
:O)
No need to cue the music yet, but it definitely was a good night!
The plan ended up just going to the Dubliner like we had planned, no dinner beforehand.
We planned on meeting up there at 9:30ish and some of her other friends (Curly and Skirtboy, Blondie and the Photographer) would be there. When I showed up, Curly saw me and was "Hey! "Slacker's" here!" and asked if I came there or if I was meeting someone. I told her I was invited by The Cute Paramedic. That invoked a "Ooooh, good!"
So I hung out with those four for a while, they filled me in on the fact that they know a ton of the people in the bar. Some they know because they work at the Renaissance Festival, and some because they're regulars at the bar who probably used to work at Ren Fest.
Here's where I realized I'm totally on her turf. I used to go there often a while back, but not for about two years. This was her crowd, so it'd be interesting to see how the night plays out.
The four filled me in on some of the running stories in the bar and who was who. It was kind of like being a boyfriend being brought to the first big family function.
Luckily it's an Irish bar with live music, so it felt like home anyway.
She showed up late because she lost track of time having dinner with a coworker. By Blondie's reaction to that it's not an uncommon event. So noted.
Anyway, she shows and I get up and give her a hug hello. After the first couple hello hugs I hear "Oh crap, he saw me!" and I get an even bigger hug.
*EX Alert!!! Ex Alert!!!*
I asked if it was an ex or what and she said yeah. But also said it wasn't a big deal.
I got us some drinks, which took a while since the bar was busy. Got back and got a teasing "Sucker!!" from Blondie and a "It would probably be faster if I got them" from TCP. She might be the regular, but I'm the gentleman. Deal with it! hehe
Anyway we sat and enjoyed the music and crossed her leg and had her knee resting on mine. I'd rub her knee and we ended up with the whole one finger link thing. Not really holding hands, more like pinky snuggling.
This girl definitely did know about half the bar, she said hi to tons of people giving hugs and all that. Yep, totally on her turf.
A little bit later someone stops by and drops off the tidbit "'The-Ex' just threw a little tantrum and left. He said he couldn't stand seeing you holding hands and stuff." Apparently he made fists and turned red and everything. Oops!
Curly and Skirtboy left and soon after so did Blondie and the Photographer. I got up to get a couple more drinks and that's when Good Sign #1 occurred: She stopped me and kissed me a few times right there on her turf in front of her friends. While the main four were gone, it still was a bunch of good friends.
We talked about what Curly and Skirtboy had said to me on Friday and apparently about the same thing happened with her. She said that previously sometime after Thursday, Curly and Blondie were talking with her and said: "You should go out with Slacker, he's a really nice guy!" and re-emphasized "Really nice guy!" To this she said "I plan on it, we already have plans for Tuesday!" I'm so glad we hooked up before they did the whole match-making things, otherwise it'd just be silly. Like Middle to High School immaturity silly.
I came back and we joined the table next door with some of her other friends and her sister who she introduced me to. Apprently her sister is dating (well, more accurately screwing) at ealst three and possibly up to five guys at present. TCP made the Good sign #2 comment: "I couldn't date moer than one guy at a time. I don't have the energy and I couldn't keep them straight."
After all the intros we all chatted a bit in between the Irish music. A little bit later a guy friend of hers stopped by and chatted for a bit, that led to Good Sign #3: she introduced me with "This is 'Slacker' you'll most likely be seeing him around more often."
Good to know. :O)
We chatted a bunch with one of TCP's friends The Stylist and her friend K, who, like me, was an outsider in that world at the time. TCP had been walking around still saying hi to various friends and came back over and leaned up next to me. After some talking she leaned over for Good Sign #4: a couple kisses right in front of The Stylist. This of course illicited "And now they're kissing! *sound of fake disgust*" hehe
After a little bit, TCP and The Stylist decided we should go to the 1029, the bar a lot of the Cops hang out at and the bar TCP usually hangs out at. Now the Dubliner was her turf with all those friends. This was going to be like taking a trip to home base. One wrong move and I become the enemy. Danger Chief Slacker, danger! Good thing about this place though, is that because it's a Blue Bar, after they close, they don't really close.
Turned out well though, we dropped off her drunkity drunk sister at the Duplex they co-own. Once The Stylist and K show up, we head over to the Cop Bar. It was a pretty dead night there, but she knew some of the guys there. Introduced me to a few and we had our drinks and then the Stylist suggested we hit Flameburger.
Flameburger is a cute little burger joint, that just happens to be open super late. Had a good burger and then we went back to her place and let The Stylist and K head out. I went in and got to meet her kids. Err Guinea Pigs. (You know that freaked you out for a minute, admit it.) She just got a new baby one so I played with him a bit and made friends with the older one, Princess.
Once she got the cages cleaned up we chatted for a while and gave some kisses goodbye. Then chatted some more and gave more kisses goodbye. Eventually we looked at the clock: 3:45. Yikes!
After a little talk about it we decided it would work out better if I just crashed there. It'd be no drive that night and a much short drive in the morning. Since the good signs earlier pointed more toward longevity than a fling, I decided I wouldn't push things and offered to stay on the couch. ($50 bucks says I get flamed by a certain Canadian for that)
We snuggled on the couch for a bit and kissed and whatnot. Then she decided to tell me that they have ghosts. I'm not one to believe in that stuff, but it still gave me the "I wonder if anything will happen" kinda creeped outness. Apparently one is a banshee and just likes to make loud screaming noises on occasion. The other is more friendly and just opens doors and cabinets.
Anyway, the night went fine and I got up later in the morning (like 8ish) and after getting ready to go I stopped in her room. We kisses and cuddled and whatnot. A nice morning for sure.
After chatting about her house and the work she still had to do on it, we kissed goodbye about 3 or four times with chatting between each. We talked about doing something Friday or over the weekend to which she said "I would like that!" And then I headed to work where I sit now.
And to show you what's on my mind now, it'd be this:
That's what she had on last night. Very cute. Hot even. If you can't read it the shirt says "Guys are like Roses, watch out for the pricks!" And since, I know Diana's wondering, I was wearing what I am now (glad I changed before I went out): Khaki's with a Blue-hint of purple but not periwinkle Geoffrey Beane shirt.
Ok, You have now read the novel that was last nights date. I hope you thoroughly enjoyed it. If not, well, suck it, I did :O)
posted by Chief Slacker @ 9:23 AM,
21 Comments:
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At Wed Jul 27, 12:45:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Diana - Yes, it definitely was fun :O) I dig her too and didn't want to push things. Yeah I think i'm going to take the day off friday nad we're going to hang out during the day before she goes to work. I have to get my car fixed and hopefully get some estimates on repairs we need at the house. We'll get there eventually. we did have some alone time at the house. No I actually didn't get to see the Ex, but her friends said i would have no problem with him ;O) And no, I have a date thurs with kickball girl, but with all the red flags I've seen and what some of her friends have said about her. I thinking that's going to be much more of a friends thing. Holy novel of a comment reply! See what you do! You need to get AIM ;O)
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At Wed Jul 27, 12:58:00 PM,
Just Me said...
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way to go slacker!!
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At Wed Jul 27, 01:07:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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S.C. - It's that "Nice Guy" that Curly and Blondie were promoting coming though. Hopefully it'll pay off :O) She knows we've hung out, and I'll definitely be up front. As of yet Kickball Girl is nothing major, but I'll see how things go.
Wendi - thanks :O) -
At Wed Jul 27, 01:17:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Gimpy - I'm always up for a challenege. luckliy I have no problems handling social situations. I'm an out going guy when I'm comfortable. Yeah, we'll see how things go on Thurs.
Diana - might help if I actually had AIM on... ;O) yes lots of good signs, but it's early. I'm not jumping on full yet. -
At Wed Jul 27, 02:06:00 PM,
Carrie said...
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oh YEAH!!! what a nice story!!!
definitely a good date...
get rid of KBG.... she's so not ready for anything and if you were to just have sex with her now, it would cheapen you. bbbbbah.
so CPG (what are we calling her, btw??) anyways.. she *IS* cute. curvy... nice boobs... (looks like a 36B in the picture... maybe a 34C) cute.
how old is she? did I miss this portion? BAH! I need more details! -
At Wed Jul 27, 02:36:00 PM,
Amber said...
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Who's the man? You are. And sweet too. You've totally shown her that you're in it for the longevity and that's cool. Seems like you've passed the friends test with flying colors, and I agree with s.c. -- give the heads up on KBG. And also I think KBG should be kicked to the curb girl -- not that she doesn't seem really nice, it just seems that TCP is WAY more into you. Less red flags and all. And that, my friend, is my two cents. : )
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At Wed Jul 27, 03:01:00 PM,
Tyjen said...
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awww what a cute story!
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At Wed Jul 27, 03:29:00 PM,
Leesa said...
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Wow, great date!
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At Wed Jul 27, 04:18:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Carrie - I don't think i'll get rid of KBG, but we'll probably end up being friends. I'd be happy with that. As for measurements, I haven't asked. Maybe I will if it comes somewher near relevant in conversation. As for age she's 24 I believe. I'll try and get ya more info on the Cute Paramedic as eveything evolves. :O)
Amber - Again, i don't think Kick to the curb will be my plan. we haven't gotten serious in the least so I'm thinking friends will be a good plan. But yeah, way fewer red flags and it sems to be pretty mutual with TCP
Sub Girl - Thanks :O) It was fun! Hopefully there will be more!
Leesa - I completely agree! -
At Wed Jul 27, 05:15:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Lil Country - Well at least she gave us a good cleavage shot in her pictures ;O) heh yeah, I figured it would be best to sleep on the couch. I really am a nice guy after all. And I love it, a woman write an advice book taht tells you that you don't really need advice. My mom was totally a slacker mom. She couldn't avoid any of the sill gadgets. Love it.
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At Wed Jul 27, 10:40:00 PM,
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Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooh boy...I should go on and on about OFFERING to stay on the couch....sheesh....
Other than that, good times. Although the pinky link thing ain't my style. I'd so be making out with her somewhere.
Don't offer the couch next time. I mean, that hurts....a less aggressive way to put things is "Do you have somewhere I could sleep?"...you'll probably still get couched, but with a little more respect from me ;)...and if she really wants it she'll say that you can sleep on the bed with her. Of course, there's always more aggressive, but we'll save those lines for later.
Good progress, though. -
At Thu Jul 28, 03:52:00 AM,
Nadia said...
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wow,im glad things are goin your way,nyc story,sound like ur smitten about her,n shes cute too..
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At Thu Jul 28, 05:16:00 AM,
said...
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Although she does have a rack, which is +32.94 bonus points.
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At Thu Jul 28, 09:06:00 AM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Captain B - I was all for making out with her, but like I said, that was her turf. Figured I'd see where she was at with things. And yeah after I offered to sleep on the couch I kind of regretted how I said that. Oh well thre's always next time ;O)
Nadz - Yeah she's a fun girl, I look forwadr to hanging out more!
Cap B - Yes she does. :O)
Amy - I think so to.
Amy - Prick head eh? You to are sooo going to throw down one of these days. hehe -
At Thu Jul 28, 09:48:00 AM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Amy - I can feel the love :O)
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At Thu Jul 28, 12:17:00 PM,
jlybn123 said...
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Things seem to be looking up, don't they? That's great, I'm really happy for you!!!
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At Thu Jul 28, 01:23:00 PM,
karla said...
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She is so cute! Does she mind you blogging about her?
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At Thu Jul 28, 02:26:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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JlyBn - yeah, they're going well, hopefully it keps up!
Karla - That I don't knwo about yet, I plan on talking about it next time we go out. I don't have anything to hide and I don't usually write about anything said in conficdence. I figure write what you want anyone to read, even her ;O) -
At Fri Jul 29, 08:50:00 AM,
Kira said...
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Hmmm Captain Bee, I think he'd rather get laid by TCP than by you, so even if you lose respect for him by him offering to sleep on the couch, I don't think in the long run he'll care if that's what actually gets the relationship he wants ;)
Sounds like a great time! Nice foundation for more. I definitely am of the opinion those are C cup breasts, though. Since we're apparently discussing their size. LOL 34 C sounds right as she seems to have a smaller ribcage from the picture. -
At Fri Jul 29, 02:08:00 PM,
Marie said...
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Wow! I'm still catching up on your posts, and this one is the first one I read. Way to go!! You're totally on fire. She sounds like a fun/great girl (she's also very cute) and the evening went very well. I'm excited for you!
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At Mon Aug 01, 10:25:00 AM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Cap B - I really don't see Amy have a problem backing anything up ;O)
Amy - Well now... ;O)
Kira - Oh don't worry, I'm going to do thing my way. Otherwise it wouldn't be me she likes. And keep in mind, she's about 5'4" but they are nice, that's for sure :O)
Amy - Sorry, No net at home
Marie - Good post to start on ;O) I'm exited for me too, I really hope to have more to tell about her in the future.