Another Red Flag - But a Date!
Wednesday, July 13, 2005Kickball Girl and I didn't end up going Blading last night, but we did exchange a bunch of text messages.
Apparently she was feeling down, so I asked if she wanted to talk about it. All she really said is that she wasn't handling stress real well. That was it though.
I told her i'd be glad to help but didn't get much of a response.
Eventually she said "I doubt it i just push people away."
My normal plan of attack would be to push in and try and help out, but I really don't think that's a good plan in the case. I figure I'll just play it by ear and try and have a good time. If she wants to talk she will I'm not going to push it.
Someone asked me what i was hoping to get out of it, and I think i made up my mind. Right now I jsut want to have a fun person to go out and have a good time with. No pressure, no worries. Fun.
Now that sounds like a plan.
Good news is dinner plans are confirmed.
*EDIT* We're going to stir-fry at her place and then go out to the bar with some other kicball peeps. Should be fun!
posted by Chief Slacker @ 10:31 AM,
16 Comments:
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At Wed Jul 13, 11:29:00 AM,
Becki said...
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Excellent. way to take your mind off of pining for me.
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At Wed Jul 13, 11:48:00 AM,
Chief Slacker said...
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A - Girl, ADD means you can't kep your mind on anything anyway ;O)
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At Wed Jul 13, 12:34:00 PM,
Christie E. Little said...
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Ok...I'm thinking you need to play it cool with this one. We may not admit it, but women are nuts a little. We see good great guys in front of us and we don't realize it! Soooo dinner at her house and going out afterward is good good good!
XOXO
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At Wed Jul 13, 01:47:00 PM,
Becki said...
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Rats foiled again.
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At Wed Jul 13, 01:51:00 PM,
Marie said...
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That sounds like a good plan. Play it cool, just enjoy your time with her, have fun and see how things go. The date plan tonight sounds great! :-)
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At Wed Jul 13, 02:34:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Thoughts - I plan on playing it cool. Hopefully tonight will be fun! And All women are psycho, the trick is finding one who's psychoses compliment my own :O)
Aurora - Foil is fun too!
Marie - I've had a habit before abnout ramping things up to quick, so I defintitely want to take it easy this time. -
At Wed Jul 13, 02:41:00 PM,
Christie E. Little said...
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So give us a pic of the prom you want to remember!
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At Wed Jul 13, 02:56:00 PM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Don't have a digital one and the only exisitng real picture I know of is at my parents place... Maybe someday.
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At Wed Jul 13, 08:12:00 PM,
Carrie said...
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uh-huh... STIR FRY at her place.....
should I just cue the porn music now, or wait til you don't come home???
****screen fades to black as audience hears bomp-chicka-bow-wow over and over again....******** -
At Wed Jul 13, 08:13:00 PM,
Carrie said...
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PS... you ARE a hussy!!!
MWUAH! hope you're having fun!!!!
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At Wed Jul 13, 10:54:00 PM,
Humor Girl said...
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Good luck with that!! :) Girls want you to be interested. But keep your own agenda! At least until it's an official RELATIONSHIP...in which case we females would like you to LOVE spending TONS of time with us. We really should come with a manual.
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At Thu Jul 14, 05:15:00 AM,
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Don't help out when you just MET her, dude.
It reeks of being needy - and they don't dig that. -
At Thu Jul 14, 09:05:00 AM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Carrie - Girl, I told you to put that music away. I'll have you cue it when the time comes ;O) Don't be jinxing my chances!
And I am NOT a chick! Jeez girly.
Humor Girl - YES! Manuals!!! Then again, us guy have a habit of not reading them anyway...
Cap B - Yeah. I'm not the needy type, and like I said, time to jsut chill out and have fun. -
At Thu Jul 14, 10:06:00 AM,
kitten said...
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old prom pics......scan it!
(what a great idea for a blog...just old prom pics.....lime green ruffled tuxedos, scarlett ohara style dresses.....wait...im showing my age again)
And play it cool, I say..she wil talk when shes ready) -
At Thu Jul 14, 10:59:00 AM,
Marie said...
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Carrie cracks me up. Carrie, how is your toothless hubby? ;-) Poor guy!!
Slacker...have you come home from your date yet?? -
At Thu Jul 14, 11:50:00 AM,
Chief Slacker said...
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Kitten - I won't have the prom picture till after I go home for a wedding next weekend, I only have the on and it's in a frame at my parents place. I'll get it though ;O)
Marie - Carrie's cool! And you much have left taht comment at the same exact time I was publishing my post about the date ;O)